By Pretty Chinyanga
Form 3 student, Starbright Academy
Gender based violence (GBV) refers to harmful acts directed at an individual based on their gender. It can be done to either to male or female. Statically women are mostly affected by gender-based violence
Pretty Chinyanga
GBV is deeply rooted in gender inequality, the abuse of power and societal norms and beliefs that perpetuate violence against individuals based on their gender. Due to some societal norms and beliefs, they encourage gender-based violence in both men and women but these mostly affect women.
However, men and boys can also be victims of gender-based violence (GBV) and it’s essential to acknowledge and address this issue. Men also suffer from gender-based violence but are afraid to speak out because of criticism.
The stigma and societal expectations surrounding traditional masculinity can prevent men from speaking out about their experiences, fearing; being seen as weak or vulnerable, being ridiculed or mocked, being told to “toughen up” or “be a man” and being blamed or shamed to mention but a few.
There for is crucial to create a safe and supportive environment where men and boys feel comfortable sharing their experiences without fear of judgment or criticism. We need to; challenge harmful gender stereotypes and norms, encourage men to speak out and seek help, provide support services, resources specifically for male survivors, engage men in GBV prevention advocacy efforts, foster a culture of empathy, understanding and inclusivity.